I am especially grateful for good days, sunshine days, especially when health challenges are present. Let me tell you a story. Recently I tried my first craniosacral therapy session; the therapist, Erdi Jacobi, had been highly recommended. She combines quantum touch with craniosacral therapy, and I was seeing her for IBS. I did not know what to expect.
She applied gentle hands to my spine, shoulders and hips while I stood. She continued applying gentle touch after I lay down. So relaxing. Erdi mentioned that she was seeing the colour yellow. (Later she told me that she’d asked herself what colour would help promote healing.) “What does that colour mean to you?” she asked.
“It’s a happy colour,” I replied, with my eyes still closed. I think of sunflowers, dandelions and yellow roses.
“I think it would be a good idea to surround yourself with more yellow, Ramona.” (I contemplated the distinct lack of yellow in my home and certainly in my wardrobe.) Then I saw a picture forming in my mind’s eye. It was a slender young woman with morning light streaming around her. It felt good. After a while, a bluebird came and landed on her right hand. My rational mind cut in with, “Why a blue bird, why not some other colour?” I decided to drop the silly question and smiled for a visit from a bird associated with happiness.
After the session Erdi mentioned she’d seen blue in addition to yellow. I told her about my visualization. Maybe a coincidence? Then two memories surfaced that made me smile more.
Happy Memories
Happy memory #1: Don’t ask me how but I still have a special dish from my own toddler days! Here a butterfly lands on the right hand of a pretty fairy.
Happy memory #2: When I was child, my mom told me a story about my birth. Who else likes hearing stories about their birth? Anyway, I was born in Vancouver, British Columbia at what was then called the Grace Hospital. It was the 1950s.
“Ramona,” my mom said, “I developed an infection after your birth. I’ll never forget the nurse who helped me. She was so kind. Her name was Elizabeth Clarke. She wrote that beautiful song you like to listen to, ‘Bluebird on Your Windowsill.’ She used to sing it in the hospital.”
There’s a bluebird on your windowsill
There’s a rainbow in your sky
There are happy thoughts, your heart to fill
Near enough to make you cry…
Oh yes, I loved that song! I knew the version sung by Doris Day. I’d almost completely forgotten about it. Now if there’s a song to lift my spirits, this is it! You too?
Bluebird on Your Windowsill
Elizabeth Clarke was apparently inspired to write the song by a little boy who was excited to see a bird landing on the windowsill of his hospital room. It’s an upbeat song but it stems from sadness. Elizabeth said herself that the song made her want to cry. I read about this at the Canadian Songwriters Hall of Fame. Click on the link if you’re interested in learning more about Elizabeth Clarke.
And if perchance your heart grow sad
You still can smile again
And with every tear you’ve ever had
Comes the sunshine after rain…The rainy days may come and go
But the clouds soon roll away
Everything will come that you wish it so
As an answer when you pray.
With coaxing, Elizabeth sang the song on CKNW radio in New Westminster. It was so well received that many recording artists sang it; including, the Rhythm Pals, Wilf Carter, Doris Day and even Hank Williams’ wife Audrey!
Carmen Elizabeth Clarke (1911-1960) passed away not that many years after my birth. She was only 49 years old. She certainly left her legacy, not only in terms of a wonderful song but also in terms of dollars and cents. She specified that all royalties were to go to sick children’s hospitals in Canada.
So, here I am, not the most robust I’ve been. Sometimes it’s a little too easy to feel defeated, but I’ve overcome challenges before! I’ll take Elizabeth’s words to heart…and sing too. Maybe what I want will come true. Why not? You never know about bluebirds and rainbows and happiness!
Oh yes, and before I’m done here, I just want to say that after my craniosacral appointment, I went out and bought myself a beautiful golden yellow gift–a Tibetan singing bowl. Its sound, which promotes healing, is, I must say, exquisite. Its tone resonates with the solar plexus chakra, very fitting for what ails me. Here’s my bowl:
Yellow, blue and rainbows, a song and a singing bowl too. What might my above words have reminded you of in your life? I’d love to know. Please do share in the comments section below. And, may your rainy days yield to sunshine and rainbows!
Dear Ramona
This is a lovely touching letter. I love your mix of gorgeous pictures, journal entries, and music.
I think a bright yellow raincoat for rainy days would look great on you!
Hope you’re feeling better.
Elaine xo
Ah Elaine, you’re so sweet! Thank you. Hmm… bright yellow raincoat reminds me of Christopher Robin. He wore one, didn’t he?? And rain boots to splash in puddles! Join me? Puddles mean rain showers. Then we could climb a hill and look for rainbows! ☔ 🙂
Dearest Ramona:
I love your blog with visions of colours, birds, butterflies and dandelions. I used to love picking them out of the ground along with four leafed clovers. I am proud to say that I knew your Mom and I loved her. She had a heart of gold – there’s the yellow again!
When I was young, my grandmother raised me. She was uneducated but full of love and spirit. Every evening we would sing songs about birds and pray together. We shared the same bedroom. She saved my life when I was very young when I fell into a well. When she passed, I stopped singing and I miss her everyday.
Thank you for bringing up these beautiful memories and I wish you the very best in your journey towards ultimate health. XXOO
Thank you, Anne! Praying together and singing songs about birds. How lovely.
As you know, my mom has been gone for such a long time too. I still miss her enormously. Being her first baby, I developed a very intense bond with her. I remember all the dishes we used to do together, she washing and I drying. I didn’t complain at all as it was during those times that she told me stories from her life and taught me many songs from before my birth. I especially remember the songs from musicals. “Younger than springtime am I, and gayer than laughter am I…la la…” She helped me with school projects and we played a ton of scrabble. It didn’t matter who won. She used to look at my letters when I was stuck and help me play the coolest words. She was an awesome teacher in so many ways. It totally sucked that she got a brain disease while still young and lived her last years not even knowing me or my siblings.
I suppose in a way this blog is a tribute to my mother, as well as to the nurse, Elizabeth Clarke, who left such a beautiful impression on her.
It’s interesting, now that I think of it, that I’ve stopped singing too. Maybe we should both give it a try again. What do you say, Anne? xo
You had quite a time in China from the accident, Ramona, and now I’m really sorry to hear you’re ill. Blessings to you. Thanks for showing us how you’re staying positive.
Thanks, Caroline. Some days I feel normal, and I’m pleased to say that those days are increasing. Yeah! I’m doing all the “right things”–diet, exercise, fresh air, exercise, decreased stress factors. Plus I’m growing flowers on my balcony and have taken painting lessons. Yes, I am trying to be positive.
Hello Ramona:
Long time no talk! Sorry to hear that you are struggling! You’ll be happy to know that when I bought my condo (already 2 yrs have passed), I painted the living room a cheery yellow which glows when the sun hits it! It is definitely a happy room! My thoughts go out to you…
Leona
Hi Leona,
Thanks and great to hear from you. Yes, it’s been a long time. I totally believe that you painted your living room a cheery yellow! How perfect, matching your sunny personality.
🙂
Dear Ramona:
What beautiful memories of you and your mom together in your kitchen. Your brother Robert always told me your mom was a wonderful teacher and helped him through all of his school years. I remember one time flying into Vancouver for work and I staying overnight at your mom’s (just her and me) and I thoroughly enjoyed her company.
Yellow is the colour that brought out the beauty of my Mom and whenever I see a pretty bright yellow piece of clothing, I think of how yellow made her happy and smile, so I enjoy wearing it. It doesn’t happen often but when it does it makes me feel warm. My favourite colour is blue. Thanks again for your inspirational blog. I don’t feel like I am ready to sing yet. I hope it happens for the both of us soon. There would be such joy.
I hope you are feeling well today as you journey onward to health.
Xxoo. Anne
So lovely to hear from you again, Anne, and it’s lovely to carry on this correspondence here, half way round the world! Yes, we need to sing! The other day I remembered a song from a movie I saw as a kid, “Rome Adventure,” with the gorgeous Suzanne Pleshette and Troy Donahue (both were gorgeous). It’s a beautiful love song, in Italian of course, called “Al Di Là.” There are many versions on YouTube, with one I listen to mostly that’s from the movie itself. I go to sleep and wake up with it playing in my head, ch’è così bella (it’s so beautiful). Can’t resist sharing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwq461GHZGs. Hope you like it!
I loved what you wrote, so expansive. Between birds, Doris Day and some shared happy memories, I felt lighter and happier too! How auspicious that you and your mother were nursed by that wonderful song-writing woman! Lots of love, ❤️ Julie
Thank you, Julie. 🙂 Interesting that you’ve chosen the words lighter and happier. I am feeling more that way everyday. It’s been a long time in the coming, I tell ya!
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